Going out for dinner is one of my favorite things. This has, however, not always been the case. When I was a kid and our family went to a restaurant, the time between making our order and taking our first bite seemed like an eternity. I would sit in anguish at the table just waiting.
God doesn’t seem to mind waiting. This is partially because God is working on a different timeline. “A day is like a thousand years to the Lord, and a thousand years is like a day” (2 Peter 3:8).The Alpha and Omega, the one who is the beginning and the end, is unaffected by the ticking of a clock.
Abraham and Sarah care greatly about the ticking of the clock as they wait to become parents. Their great-grandson Joseph is sold into slavery and winds up imprisoned in Egypt. He interprets the dream of a fellow inmate, the cupbearer to Pharaoh. Joseph asks the cupbearer to speak highly of Joseph so he might be set free, but years pass while Joseph waits.
The Psalm writer faithfully exclaims: Come quickly to help me, O Lord my savior (Psalm 38:22).
We want God’s help to come quickly. More often than not, we find ourselves waiting and wondering what God is up to and why he is slow to respond.
Peter reframes it beautifully: The Lord isn’t really being slow about his promise, as some people think. No, he is being patient for your sake (2 Peter 3:9).
In Paul’s famous love chapter (1 Corinthians 13), the first word Paul uses to describe God’s love is patient. God isn’t slow. God is patient. Because God is love.
One of my favorite examples of this is at the beginning of the Exodus:
When Pharaoh finally let the people go, God did not lead them along the main road that runs through Philistine territory, even though that was the shortest route to the Promised Land. God said, “If the people are faced with a battle, they might change their minds and return to Egypt.” So God led them in a roundabout way through the wilderness toward the Red Sea (Exodus 13:17-18).
God, precisely because he loves us, refuses to give us the shortcut we would much prefer.